In a private conversation, a professional belly dancer said she and her fellow dancers were pressured by her manager to provide sexual services, then were punished when they refused. Back home, an American woman who had traveled there alone reported being groped on the subway.
I met many men in Egypt who treated me as an equal. Flanked at almost all times by my American boyfriend and my Egyptian tour guide, I was not harassed -- not unless you count burning stares from men along the streets and in cars, including the ubiquitous policemen.
"Don't make eye contact," our tour guide said. "It's seen as an invitation." His wife, a Brazilian Muslim who wears the hijab, has found the middle finger to be an effective response, he said.
I was fortunate, it turns out. According to a report released in 2008 by the Egyptian Center for Women's Rights, 98 percent of non-Egyptian women are sexually harassed in Egypt.
It's tempting to point that middle finger at Islam. Muslim men's attitudes toward non-Muslim women seems comparable to the sexual objectification of female slaves in U.S. history. But Muslim women, even those who wear the shrouding niqab, are victims too. Eighty-three percent of Egyptian women say they've been sexually harassed.
But Islam teaches that women are to be respected. Muhammad was disturbed by the harassment of women on the streets of Mecca in the seventh century. He would be mortified by the situation in Egypt today.
Rape knows no boundaries; neither does sexual harassment. It's not a problem exclusive to Egypt or to Islam. It's a cultural problem, born of the will to power. Now that Egyptians -- male and female -- have reclaimed their power by overthrowing their dictator, will they take the next step and include women in the process of rewriting the Constitution, making laws and electing leaders? So far, this does not appear to be the case. Women are going to have to demand their due.
Sherry Jones is the author of "The Jewel of Medina" and "The Sword of Medina," novels about the Prophet Muhammad's favorite wife, and the forthcoming "Four Sisters, All Queens," scheduled for publication by Simon & Schuster's Gallery imprint in spring/summer 2012. Read her blog on Red Room.




